Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Keep you Manhood & Be Romantic at the same time: 3 quick tips

Look Gentlemen, Ladies require some time and effort. It's just
the nature of Women to have a lot going on and be more
complex than anything else you'll encounter today.

Here's some tips to navigate the unpredictable ride that is
romantic relationships:

1) Get yourself some "Man Time" after work.
You need time to unwind your body and mind after your busy
day at work. Take 20-40 minutes to do something you LOVE
when you get home. Play video games, shoot some hoops, play
YOUR music loud and rock out. Take care of you first. Let her
know you need "Man Time" and will be ready for her in 30 min.

2) Listen to her talk and rant about her day next.
She may sound like she's complaining but she'll really checking
to see if she has your emotional support. Listen and be sympathetic,
let her get all her pent up emotions out. It doesn't matter if you think
her emotions are valid, just encourage her to go over the top. If she
feels like she has vented and you've listened, then she'll relax.

3) Assert your Authority during Small Decisions.
Be clear, Be direct, and take the Lead. Women love Leaders, they
love men in uniform, they fall for the bad boy that tells them "how
things are going to go down". So on "little" things like dinner, movies,
sex, shopping, and where to sit, TAKE CHARGE. Show your confidence,
flex your muscles a little, get "Macho" and be a Leader.

Yes, there are times for deep talks and teamwork, but that's only some
times, not all the time. Let yourself be masculine and assertive with what
you want and INVITE her to join you. Show her she can trust you and your
decisions. Ultimately she wants to know that "you have her back."

Live Big & Be Awesome!

Sky Murphy

1 comment:

  1. Good advice - especially INVITE rather than pressure. And, watch out for the few who walk around with a chip on their shoulder just daring you to bump it with your masculine assertiveness. They require EXTRA care. :>

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