When should I Call? & What should I say? 2 of dating's biggest questions

Over the last three days I've heard from a lot of Ladies about not getting
called back after the 3rd or 4th date.

They said, "I think it's over because I didn't hear from him again"

I said, "Did you call him?"

They said, "No, I was waiting for him to call. If he likes me he'd call."

This one of biggest mistakes of dating!!!

If you've only had 3-4 dates you are not his biggest priority. Hopefully
he had a social, work, and spiritual life before he met you. The Man
has things to do people to see.

Yes Ladies, you can call the man.

You can Call them Once a Week to say "Hello".
Not "Where the hell have you been!!"

It's not cool to verbally attack a man for not calling you. Being passive
aggressive isn't okay either. You may feel like he "owes" you, please be
aware everyone make mistakes and gets too busy. Be fun, be inviting,
keep the sunny side up.

You can Call them up to Invite them out.
Not "You're the man so you should have a plan"

If you want to see him again, call with an flexible idea or plan. Yes, he
might already have plans, it's not the end of the world. Stay positive,
be disappointed, but don't take it as "it's over". Wait a week, if he's still
on your mind try again with a new plan.

Bottom Line: If you like him, call him :-)

Dream Big!

Sky Murphy